These would you rather questions for couples will help you and your partner discover each other’s 3Ps – preferences, priorities, and philosophies. Oh yeah, alliteration! They can also help new couples understand more about each other and can help to align life philosophies.

Now for a warning: These would you rather questions for couples can lead to interesting and meaningful conversations but may also identify potential areas of conflict or compromise in your relationship. But with an open mind, you’ll have lots of fun, and no doubt, make plenty of new discoveries.

Let’s dive into the would you rather for couples questions. They range from light-hearted and a bit silly to deep and thought-provoking (get your thinking caps at the ready)!

 

80 Would You Rather Questions For Couples

Couple Specific Would You Rather Couple Questions

 

Let’s start with these couple specific would you rather questions for couples:

 

Would you rather have a public or private proposal?

 

Would you rather have a big wedding or elope?

 

Would you rather have your partner tell you what they want as a gift or surprise them?

 

Would you rather argue all night to resolve a conflict or end the argument unresolved before bed?

 

Would you rather live with your partner’s parents or siblings?

 

Would you rather get a terrible gift on your anniversary or no gift at all?

 

Would you rather have a partner who is more sensitive or more thick-skinned?

 

Would you rather ask for help or figure it out on your own?

 

Would you rather have a partner who is more spontaneous or more planned?

 

Would you rather get an expensive gift from your lover or a thoughtful one?

 

Would you rather have date night every week or every month?

 

Would you rather have a partner who is your best friend or your soulmate?

 

Would you rather be able to read each other’s thoughts or always know each other’s emotions?

 

Would you rather have a partner who is similar to you or different from you?

 

Would you rather have a partner who is more introverted or more extroverted?

 

Would you rather have a big family or a small family?

 

Would you rather talk on the phone or text?

 

Would you rather talk about your feelings openly or keep them to yourself?

 

Would you rather have a partner who is more logical or more emotional?

 

Would you rather have a love that is passionate and all-consuming but short-lived, or a love that is steady and comfortable but lasts a lifetime?

would you rather questions for couples

Lifestyle Would You Rather Questions For Couples

 

Check out these lifestyle would you rather questions for couples:

 

Would you rather live a life of luxury or a life of simplicity?

 

Would you rather have a lot of money or a lot of time?

 

Would you rather exercise together or watch a movie together?

 

Would you rather have a life full of excitement or a life full of peace?

 

Would you rather live a life of freedom or a life of security?

 

Would you rather be spontaneous or plan everything in advance?

 

Would you rather be always cold or always hot?

 

Would you rather live in a big city or a small town?

 

Would you rather travel the world or stay close to home?

 

Would you rather go to a sporting event or a game night with friends?

 

Would you rather work from home or from the office?

 

Would you rather be surrounded by people or have time to yourself?

 

Would you rather have a romantic dinner at home or a fancy dinner at a restaurant?

 

Would you rather live in the city or the countryside?

 

Would you rather have a staycation or a vacation abroad?

 

Would you rather go on a hot air balloon ride or a helicopter tour?

 

Would you rather take a cooking class together or go wine tasting?

 

Would you rather go to a concert or a play?

 

Would you rather go on a hike or have a spa day together?

 

Would you rather go on a road trip or a cruise?

 

Would you rather spend a day at a theme park or a water park?

 

Would you rather have a private island or a private jet?

 

Would you rather get up early or stay up late?

 

Would you rather have a family that is always conventional or a family that is always unconventional?

 

Deep Would You Rather Questions For Couples

 

And now for some deep would you rather questions for couples:

 

Would you rather prioritize your personal happiness or the happiness of others?

 

Would you rather never feel emotional pain or physical pain?

 

Would you rather be a leader or a follower?

 

Would you rather take risks or play it safe?

 

Would you rather focus on your personal growth or on helping others?

 

Would you rather live in the moment or work towards a long-term goal?

 

Would you rather have a baby at 16 or 60?

 

Would you rather live in the present or plan for the future?

 

Would you rather pursue your passions or prioritize your career?

 

Would you rather be able to see the future or change the past?

 

Would you rather be able to see 10 hours into the future or 5 years into the future?

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Fun Would You Rather Questions For Couples

 

Here are some fun would you rather questions for couples:

 

Would you rather wear dirty underwear or no underwear?

 

Would you rather eat only salty food for the rest of your life or only sweet food?

 

Would you rather eat takeout every night of the week, or have to cook for your partner every night of the week?

 

Would you rather have no Facebook for a year or read no books for a year?

 

Would you rather have spinach stuck in your teeth or accidentally fart on the first date?

 

Would you rather have to wear your partner’s underwear or use their toothbrush?

 

Would you rather give up caffeine or alcohol forever?

 

Would you rather get matching tattoos or piercings?

 

Would you rather have the ability to teleport or the ability to fly?

 

Would you rather have a personal robot or a personal chef?

 

Would you rather have a time machine or a money tree?

 

Would you rather eat a bowl of live beetles or a cup of spoilt milk?

 

Would you rather always be 10 minutes late or always be 20 minutes early?

 

Would you rather be in a zombie apocalypse or a robot apocalypse?

 

Would you rather be the most popular kid in school or the smartest kid in school?

 

Intimate Would You Rather Questions For Couples

 

And finally, a few intimate would you rather questions for couples:

 

Would you rather talk openly about intimacy or keep it to yourself?

 

Would you rather be intimate five times a week or once a week?

 

Would you rather get a sensual shoulder rub or foot rub from your partner?

 

Would you rather be on the top or bottom?

 

Would you rather be dirty in the bedroom or super romantic?

 

Would you rather do it in the morning or at night?

 

Would you rather start with lots of foreplay, or dive right into the main event?

 

Would you rather be kissed on the lips or the neck?

 

Would you rather be tied up to the bed or have your partner tied up?

 

Would you rather receive a love note or a sexy text?

 

How To Use These Would You Rather Questions For Couples

 

Next time you’re looking for a way to spice up date night or a conversation, consider asking your partner these would you rather questions for couples and see where it takes you! I hope you enjoy answering them.

 

TIP: Copy and paste these would you rather couple questions to a Word Doc and print them for your next date night!

 

Overall, would you rather questions for couples can be a fun and engaging way for you to get to know each other better and spark interesting conversations. Whether you’re just starting out in a relationship or have been together for years, these questions can help you learn new things about your partner and strengthen your bond.

 

If you like these would you rather questions for couples, you can buy a gorgeous done-for-you printable version from my shop below! ⬇️

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